All the things you need to know about the groom’s right-hand man.
Best Man 101
WHO: The best man is defined as the principal groomsman at a wedding. He can be the brother, a close relative, or the best friend of the man about to tie the knot. In any case, the groom usually picks his go-to guy and may choose more than one person in special circumstances (such as having two brothers or two childhood buddies who he is equally close to).
WHAT: The role of the best man may not be as extensive as the maid of honor’s, but he is instrumental in helping keep things in order on the groom’s side.
- Helping you choose your wedding outfit, be it a formal suit or the traditional Barong Tagalog
- Giving you objective opinions on wedding matters (it’s a big plus if your best man is already married because he can give you insights based on his own experiences)
- Providing moral support on stressful days
- Arranging your bachelor party and inviting all your close friends to attend it
- Assisting you in wearing your suit
- Distributing ties, boutonnieres, and other related accessories to the groomsmen
- Making sure all the groomsmen are present for the pictorial and wedding march
- Informing groomsmen about schedule changes
- Holding on to the wedding rings before the exchanging of vows (fake rings are usually placed on the ring bearer’s pillow)
- Assisting the church in obtaining the signatures of the principal sponsors for the marriage certificate
- Going around the wedding reception and offering hard drinks to guests
- Assisting the maid of honor in handing out gifts for the principal sponsors and wedding entourage at the party
- Giving a best man speech that’s insightful and entertaining but won’t embarrass the newlyweds
- Being on call if the newlyweds need anything throughout the ceremony and reception
- Helping you with your honeymoon plans (essential if you want to surprise your new bride!)
HOW: Pick your best man by following your gut and choosing someone you trust. If you’re unsure, try to answer questions like:
- Do you value his thoughts?
- Is he dependable on nerve-wracking moments?
- Can you rely on him for anything?
- Is he responsible enough to attend to you on your wedding day?
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